I use tarot and oracle cards as tools for reflection and contemplation. Rather than divining the future, they are a way for me to look more deeply at the "now."
"The goal isn't to arrive, but to meander, to saunter, to make your life a holy wandering." ~ Rami Shapiro

Tuesday, March 29, 2016

Listening and Grazing

From the Hezicos Tarot, the King of Cups; from the Way of the Horse, Back to Grazing:
          This King guides and instructs in the watery element of emotions. Listening to and advising people in crisis can be exhausting, so how does he do it? I think of him as having mastered equanimity. Narayan Helen Liebenson gives her description of this quality: "Equanimity means responding to the conditions we encounter with inner balance and relaxation. It’s about responding with wisdom and compassion rather than reacting with aversion or clinging. Being equanimous doesn’t mean being compliant, complacent, or resigned. And it has nothing to do with indifference." In other words, being present with what is happening without letting our preferences color our perception of what is happening (This is great! This is terrible!). But to do this requires the ability to connect with the luminous mind rather than the ego; meditation is a practice for finding this place of spaciousness. Then, as Sharon Salzberg explains, "we can fully connect to whatever is happening around us, fully connect to others, but without our habitual reactions of rushing toward what is pleasant and pulling away from what is unpleasant."
          Back to Grazing is another way the King of Cups maintains his serenity. Kohanov suggests following the horse's lead: "When something scares them, they startle and bolt. When the danger passes, they relax and go back to grazing. They don't spend the afternoon ruminating over the fact that they had to run from a predator, and they don't stay up all night worrying about future encounters with lions and tigers and bears." The King knows its the story we write and narrate in our heads that makes us crazy. The moon snail shell he wears on his head has an operculum ("little lid") that is like a door on the shell. It is a reminder to connect with the emotion, but unhook from the story line.

10 comments:

  1. Boy, I needed this today! Great cards and write-up, very salient after my particular draw today.

    I have always liked The Way of the Horse and Linda Kohanov's books.

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    1. Thank you my friend. Hope you are settling in to your new life nicely. :) I agree about the Way of the Horse - it is a well thought out and beautifully painted oracle.

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  2. Your observation of the way horses respond and then move on, reminds of a quote. " A lot of horrible things have happened to me. Some of them actually happened." -Thomas Edison.

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    1. Isn't that the truth. I play all these movie reels in my head yet very few look anything like reality!

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  3. we are sort of in the same corral today.

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    1. I think I've got an extra cowgirl hat around here... :)

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  4. Habitual reactions of rushing toward what is pleasant and pulling away from what is unpleasant." and then we have to write the stories. No wonder we get so tired without accomplishing anything! :)

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    1. Makes me want to just sit down and take a few deep breaths. :)

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  5. What a wonderful portrayal of the King of Cups! You managed to put words on something I felt dimly without always being able to express it.

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    1. Thank you Styx! And I appreciate you dropping by and leaving a comment. :)

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