From the Vision Quest Tarot, the Mother of Air (Queen of Swords); from the Bird Cards, "Lovebird:"
The Mother of Air has qualities that reflect the eagle that flies behind her. Intelligent and objective, she can see the big picture of situations, including the likely consequences. She doesn't hold on to preconceived ideas or prejudices, but observes and listens as if meeting each person or circumstance for the first time. However when she speaks her truth, her words may be just as sharp as that eagle's talons and beak. Her honesty can leave you feeling like you've just been flayed.
The lovebird is a small parrot, known for its social nature and affection. Its common name came from the strong monogamous bond it forms and the long periods it spends sitting with its mate. This card is plainly a counterbalance to the Mother/Queen's tendency to be blunt. Tough love is fine as long as I don't forget to include the compassion. As Pema Chodron says, “Honesty without kindness, humor, and goodheartedness can be just mean.”
