Having kin who nurture us and love us unconditionally is a blessing, but in my case it involves more than just traditional family. I'm one of those who've often found more support and kindness among friends. "Found families" are people who treat each other as if related in an emotional sense. When you've experienced much loss, it is easy to be drawn to others in the same boat who recognize the importance and worth of such relationships. These people know just what a treasure it is to have people who love you and whom you love in return. It reminds me to tell these folks what a gift it is to have them in my life. The Ancestor of Tribes underscores the Ten of Cups, stressing the power and resilience of tribal support. The hard part is not in finding a tribe, but in reaching out to them when you are in need.
When everything goes to hell, the people who stand by you without flinching - they are your family. ― Jim Butcher