An Effective Weapon

From the Ship of Fools Tarot, the Nine of Staves; from the Wisdom of the Four Winds, Fantail:

The Nine of Wands generally suggests staying alert and defending what is important. But sometimes it may be just about us; we are simply trying to keep at it in order to reach a goal so that we don't let exhaustion or other distractions deter our effort. It could be that we're trying to finish a project before a deadline, get through the last course of treatment for an illness, or complete a course that adds to our skills and knowledge. It may seem easier to say 'the hell with it' than hang in there. Yet a bird offers us an effective outlet. Fantails, when perched, often continue to rock back and forth, spin 180° on the spot, wag their tail from side to side or fan it. This bird is a source of joy and laughter, reminding us that humor can help restore our sanity and determination. As Mark Twain said, "The human race has one really effective weapon, and that is laughter."

Little Lumps of Sugar

From the Ship of Fools Tarot, Strength; from the Wisdom of the Four Winds, 'Fantail:'

          The Fool lies astride a donkey's back with a hand at his mouth. I imagine him feeding the animal with an apple slice or sugar lump every mile or so to entice him to keep plodding along. People - even those exasperating ones - tend to be easier to deal with when we offer unconditional friendliness as well. It's not a matter of whether someone deserves it or not; a smile or a kind word given can help diffuse our own frustration, as well as let the person know they aren't just an obstacle to get past. The fantail often flies within a meter or two of people as they stroll through parks, gardens, and forests (it knows people will stir up insects for it to eat). This companionable bird's message is to "stand back from the little dramas we create in our lives and bring laughter to them." A perspective with a side of humor can help us be more objective and expose the core of the problem. Like the Fool on the donkey learned, we can change our behavior rather than waiting for others to change their actions.