From the Dark Mansion Tarot, the Tower; from Miss Mai's Victorian Oracle, Corset:
It's not so much that the unexpected happens, it's just that we expect it not to. Both the cards today imply ways we try to get around the uncertainties inherent in life. The Tower is the way we try to distance ourselves from pain; we may see it from a distance and even pity others, but we strive to be untouched by it. The Corset squeezes and shapes what is natural into a preferred form, much like the judgmental thoughts we can have ("He shouldn't have smoked and should have exercised more.") that are designed to separate us from suffering. But the mental and emotional walls we use are a delusion - the nature of life is joy and adversity, not one or the other. In the words of Chodron, "To live is to be willing to die over and over again." We release what has already happened and choose to greet each day as new and fresh, with curiosity rather than fear.