Fulcrum of Friendship

This week I'll be using the New Era Elements Tarot, created by Eleonore Pieper and published by U.S. Games. I'll also be using the Tao Oracle, created by Ma Deva Padma and published by St. Martin's Press. Today's draws are Ace of Water and Grace (Hexagram 22):

We all come to the table with our own life experiences and relationships.

―Alisyn Camerota

Water is a fundamental necessity for all living things. But now scientists are discovering that emotional connections (that water can symbolize) are just as important. Positive relationships are crucial for physical and mental health, leading to greater happiness, a longer life, and better health outcomes. Our well-being rests on the fulcrum of friendships. Yet Hexagram 22 takes this a step further, encouraging us relate to all of our experiences with grace and humility. Rather than seeing only what is wrong with things, we move through our days noticing the good, the beautiful and the awe-inspiring. Depending on whether our hearts stay open or shut down in these daily encounters, we are shaped accordingly. What kind of friend are we shaping up to be?

Celebrating the Good

From Tarot by Caro, the Four of Wands; from the Holitzka I Ching, Hexagram 22:

What drew my eye in this Four of Wands was the heart between the two women. A true celebration is about cheering on those we love, wishing them good things ahead. It is about congratulating those to whom our heart is connected who have met and overcome challenges. We might think that we can celebrate the comeuppance of those who have been in the business of using and hurting other beings. But retribution doesn't bring real joy, only a very brief moment of satisfying revenge. We can't really revel in it because the heavy suitcase of resentment we're still dragging around weighs us down. Hexagram 22 implies both grace and beauty. It is a reminder that each day should be about celebrating the good, not giving the bad free rent in our head.

Doesn't everything die at last, and too soon?

Tell me, what is it you plan to do

with your one wild and precious life?

—Mary Oliver