From the Victoria Regina Tarot, the Two of Cups; from the
Alchemist Oracle, 'Higher Knowledge:'
A couple listen intently to each other as they take a country walk decked out in fashionable clothes (thank goodness for hiking boots, jeans and t-shirts today). They are obviously bonding, but it appears the attraction is about more than just sex. The Ball canning jars above their heads have the word 'Ideal' on them, suggesting a relationship that is based on a balance of give and take rather than inequality. I imagine that has a lot to do with developing a friendship in which honesty and communication take priority over a roll in the hay. 'Higher knowledge' has nothing to do with a PhD, instead it is a deep-seated wisdom that doesn't revolve around "I, me and mine." This wisdom sees with clarity and compassion without getting caught up in a world of make-believe. I'm lucky to be married to my best friend; the ups and downs of our relationship have taught me:
- Compromise and flexibility don't mean I've lost a battle.
- Resentment isn't necessary when agreeing to disagree.
- Honesty and kindness are much more important than looks.
- My happiness doesn't depend on another person's mood.
- Empathy is not the same thing as emotional entanglement.
- I am responsible for the choices I make; no one else is to blame.
- Self-care sometimes requires solitude.
- When I extend my circle of friends and interests, I'm more fulfilled.
What has the clarity and compassion of wisdom taught you about relationships?
