From the Tarot of Durer, the King of Swords; from the Philosopher's Stone, Solution:
Unlike his younger sons, the King of Swords has tamed his dragon (impulsive words) and domesticated his fox (manipulative intellect). Now that doesn't mean he can't build a fire under people to get them moving or plan a strategy to protect and advance his kingdom. He just does it thoughtfully and objectively, considering what will benefit all instead of just a few. As I leave to go spend a few days with my mom and cousins, I need to adopt his mature vision. Their political and religious views are very dissimilar to my own, which can make conversation difficult. The Stone card suggests there is a solution, as the stylized question mark becomes an exclamation point in shadow. Rather than an obstacle, the brick wall might be the answer. As long as I remain respectful and don't become emotionally entangled, I can make space for everyone's opinions and beliefs. Then we'll all have a section of wall to creatively express our ideas on, just like graffiti artists.
Sometimes when we hit the proverbial brick wall, is where something new and wonderful can begin or maybe just a very bad headache. Enjoy your trip,
ReplyDeleteSo far, so good! I arrived a few days later than the rest, so I think they were talked out as far as debating topics go. :)
DeleteSmile 'em to death, words of wisdom from a friend. Her family was great at telling her what to do.
ReplyDeleteKill'em with kindness - absolutely a much better alternative than arguing!
DeleteI hope you will all enjoy each other's company. Maybe, just maybe they will respect your boundaries too. People will never cease to amaze you :D
ReplyDeleteI'm beginning to realize that no one will respect my boundaries unless I tell them not to cross certain lines (instead of just expecting them to know). :)
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