From the Anna K. Tarot, the Seven of Cups; from the Meditation Cards, Die Before You Die:
Anna suggests that instead of making a choice, this card illustrates self-delusion and a loss of reality. My first reaction is to give this woman a head slap and try to knock some sense into her. But I've been to la-la land myself when I was overwhelmed with great pain or fear. I understand why people want to believe in angels and unicorns; I know why they bury their head in the sand and pretend nothing is wrong. I get why people buy prayer cloths from a televangelists. When life is filled with uncertainties, anything we can pin our hope on - no matter how outlandish - may seem better than nothing. Yet Pema Chodron's words keep playing in my head: “Do I prefer to grow up and relate to life directly, or do I choose to live and die in fear?” 'Die Before You Die' is a Sufi teaching about using the hard experiences of life to strip away what is unimportant (what protects the ego) in exchange for wisdom. This wisdom won't keep us from having to climb other daunting mountains, but it will make us much better mountain climbers. (And we probably won't need that prayer cloth on the hike.)
"Do I prefer to grow up and relate to life directly" and respond to it with love. The older I get the easier it is to let go of things and idea's I used to think were so important but often they turned out to be merely trivial after all
ReplyDeleteEspecially many of those things that tag along after 'I, me, my and mine.'
DeleteHe you know them too? :D
DeleteVery well acquainted! :D
DeleteThat prayer cloth could still be of use...wiping the sweat from the brow on the hard climb. I don't advocate buying anything from those pseudo-wizards of oz, but a little talisman can be a comfort.
ReplyDeleteA hankie might come in handy. :)
DeleteThinking back I made many things a talisman over the years. The currrent one has lasted the longest...buttons. Got a problem? Put a button on it...
ReplyDeleteTalismans are interesting... Who or what gives them power? Or perhaps they are meant to just comfort and not solve problems.
DeleteMy take is that we invest talismans with power. They act as a help, a reminder, a comfort. A bit like our discussion of magic being prayers with props... :D
DeleteThey would be good 'touchstones' or reminders. :)
DeleteSo nice to see Asha's cards in use. I'll have to let her know :) These two cards complement each other very well. Love your take on them, Bev.
ReplyDeleteI love using her deck! Always spiritual food for thought in each image. :)
DeleteAh, that illusion of choice... We can choose which flavour of 500 cereals we want, but we can't choose much of the important stuff! Going through the tough stuff, we can at least choose how we want to face adversity :)
ReplyDeleteIn many ways, we are 'spoiled for choice' for sure!
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