Circle Up

From the Badgers Forest Tarot, the Hanged Bird; from the Gemstone Oracle, Aquamarine:

In a circle, there are no experts – instead there are stories, questions, tears, longings, dreams – and a bunch of equal people who trust their own wisdom and each other’s. 

—Heather Plett

Everyone knows someone who can be described as "never giving an inch." These folks believe their opinions are infallible and should always be heeded. But inevitably, the hard-liner meets reality head-on - hopefully realizing how little power or sway they have. Situations are rarely all black or white, so without knowing or understanding all the circumstances, we should avoid issuing any decrees. Aquamarine symbolizes a dose of common sense with a hefty helping of self-awareness. Can we see beyond what we think is right or wrong, and instead listen to others' experiences and just do something that might help?

A Brain to Pick

This week I'll be using the Badgers Forest Tarot, a deck created and self-published by Nakisha VanderHoeven. Along with it, I'll be using my Gemstone Oracle (with actual stones). Today's draws are the Queen of Crows (Pentacles) and Aquamarine:

Mentoring is a brain to pick, an ear to listen, and a push in the right direction.

— John Crosby

A friend's grandson and his wife are both well-trained, skilled RNs, yet they still call his mom for advice with their young children. No matter how much knowledge and experience we have, there is always someone who has more. When it comes to abilities like how to cook something, how to fix what is broken, how to build a kid's fort, or even directions to get somewhere, there are talented and generous people available to ask - as this little sparrow knows. Aquamarine suggests being prepared and using common sense. It helps in this regard if we can find a mentor or partner who is grounded and knowledgeable to guide or support us.

Spring is in the Air

From the Badgers Forest Tarot, the Page of Wands (Kit of Rabbits); from the Gemstone Oracle, Aquamarine:

It's easy to see this kit is full of energy and looking for some excitement. His mom would probably like a child safety switch and a surge protector attached to him. Yet even those of us who aren't so young can relate to this mindset as Spring begins to arrive and we feel the pull to get outside and enjoy the warmer temperatures. This time of year such enthusiasm can cause me to overdo things, especially when it comes to gardening and yard work. Aquamarine's message involves common sense and preparation. Its quote comes from Abraham Lincoln: "Give me six hours to chop down a tree and I will spend the first four sharpening the ax." Planning, mindfulness, and a sane pace can help me enjoy the work while allowing me to be able to get out of bed the next morning.