I've got a friend who's a beekeeper, and the one thing I've learned about bees from her is to stay calm around them (and don't wear black or brown because they may mistake you for a bear). Life is filled with honey-like sweetness as well as the stings of suffering; it's just a normal part of being a physical human being. If I can maintain a sense of equanimity no matter what comes, I'll enjoy the good times even more and weather the bad times without drama or self-pity. My contentment won't depend on the cycles of pleasure or displeasure that arrive, but the center of strength and peace of mind I maintain through all of it.
Dorn (Thorn, Thurisaz) and has been translated as both "thorn" and "giant." It is a rune of power that can represent chaos and harm or protection. The rune's shape made me think of the body language of of a mom, hand on her hip with elbow jutting out, saying "I've had just about enough of this!" While I might have to deal with life's stings, I don't have to be a doormat or lose my common sense. I can use the power I have to erect and maintain boundaries instead of losing my cool.
There is a nobleness of mind that heals wounds beyond salves.
~ William Cartwright
Even bare feet! Pain isn't as bad as we think it is? Even an idiot can get lucky? She reminds me of myself when doing outside chores ;)
ReplyDeleteThat's pretty much the speed I move at when doing chores outside. :D
DeleteInteresting image, petting a bee. Perhaps we don't have to fear the stings of life if we always deal with others compassionately :) I'd never have thought of Thurisaz as a mom laying down the law. In this pairing, it makes me think of that sting in the bee, but also that some people have experienced healing through bee stings - the pain and the protection...
ReplyDeleteI'm more likely to receive kindness if I act kindly, but even if I don't, compassion can help me see all humans have imperfections and bad days (especially myself!). Then it's easier to be more tolerant than to take an indignant attitude.
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