An irritant (probably a parasite rather than a grain of sand) embedded itself into an oyster and caused inflammation to the soft flesh inside. As a defense, the oyster used a fluid (nacre) to coat the irritant with many layers. After about 3 years, the tormentor became a soft, rounded pearl. Petersen writes, "If you really accept your pain, it will change you and bring you knowledge, wisdom and happiness." What is it that shapes our hearts more - our trials and tribulations or our goals and ambitions? The Nine of Cups seems to point that the pain rather than the pleasure might be the greatest shaper. It is human nature to want to battle or avoid pain rather than keeping the heart open and walking through it. The process is scary and excruciating, but as the pearl implies, there's usually a benefit discovered at the end. Grant me the serenity, courage and acceptance to hang in there until I find that Rainbow.
In times of difficulty it is this repeated setting of our heart’s compass that determines the result.
~ Jack Kornfield
~ Jack Kornfield
Sometimes those little irritants make us just a bit uncomfortable and we have to change. When things get challenging I always try to remember an old diddie, "everything always works out for the best." May the sand pebble become your pearl of wisdom. Hope things are better today for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteThank you Carolyn. :) I think the wisdom is in making room for all of it.
Deletemakes me wonder what the life span of a oyster might be, left to it's own devices. Perhaps as long as a turtle??
ReplyDeleteAccording to a government website, they've lived up to 20 years in captivity, but less in the wild.
Delete"If you really accept your pain, it will change you and bring you knowledge, wisdom and happiness."" I've been thinking about this today too :)
ReplyDeleteKeep your compass on the true north of you heart my dear Bev!
My heart's compass keeps looking for the direction of "run and hide," but fortunately it looks like true north is the only option available. :)
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