I was reading an interview with a woman who had been a successful therapist; she retired, moved with her partner to a state with a temperate climate into a lovely home with a garden. She described her retirement as "a beautiful prison." Though money wasn't a problem and she was in good health, an absence of purpose left her feeling bored and depressed. I think changes that take us out of our structured lives - no matter if we're empty-nesters or retirees - can leave people feeling unmoored. As one fellow said, "There's only so much gardening and golf one can do." The Hope card reminds me of a quote by George Washington Carver: "Where there is no vision, there is no hope." Carver, one of the most innovative scientists and inventors in African-American history, believed we need something to look forward to and work toward. It doesn't matter whether it originates from a small project or a large one, as long as it gives us a reason to get up in the morning.
There will come a time when you believe everything is finished. That will be the beginning.
~Louis L'Amour
some folk retire and expect a exciting retirement. We are the excitement, nothing happens until we do. I love being retired. I've done all but one of the have-tos already, next is playing with, cleaning off, remaking my naturescape. Nature. Win Win. I'll set some it back to the wild...
ReplyDelete"We are the excitement, nothing happens until we do." AARP needs to put this bit of wisdom on a bumper sticker!
DeleteThe thing is to keep the mind, body, spirit active. I love being outdoors but gardening only goes far.
ReplyDeleteExactly - a holistic approach rather than a one-pronged solution.
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