How
serendipitous - I was out at the pond yesterday, working with some
plant allies (and spotted a Little Blue Heron there), and now I draw a
card with a elderly man surrounded by his allies. This human teacher
seems to have a gentle spirit, and I can't help thinking of Thich Nhat
Hahn (with hair) when I look at him. But what I notice most about him
is that he is not holding a book or giving a lecture in a
classroom. He's in the midst of his own teachers, getting grass stains
on his pants and dirt under his fingernails. Books and seminars are
good, but true learning comes when I get out of my head and actually
apply the knowledge in the world.
From the Goddess Oracle comes "Blodeuwedd: Betrayal:"
From the Goddess Oracle comes "Blodeuwedd: Betrayal:"
Blodeuwedd,
the Welsh goddess of spring, was only unfaithful to her husband (the
sun god), but also killed him. For her punishment, she was turned into
an owl. Betrayal often has a steep learning curve; the more pain we
experience, the greater the likelihood we will want to avoid that person
or situation again. But having talked to many women about men,
employers, etc. who deceived them, one of the things I usually hear is,
"I should have seen the signs." If a person always has an excuse for
the small things - showing up late (or not at all), incomplete
paperwork, not returning a phone call - it's quite likely they will be
irresponsible when it comes to the big things. Before choosing someone to give my trust to, I need to keep my eyes wide open to any little flags waving in the breeze.
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