From the Granny Jones Australian Tarot, the Two of Buttons (Pentacles); from the Button Oracle, Mask:
Dang, Granny has got a groove going! Not only is she tossing and catching buttons, but she's got a hula-hoop in play too. I recently spotted a box of these at a local store, so I stopped and gave one a try. It takes a lot of hip swiveling with flexibility to keep those hoops going - much more than I remembered! But it's that same kind of flexibility (especially on a mental level) that I'm going to need when my perfectly constructed daily schedule begins to fall apart with the arrival of the unexpected. Yet the Mask Button implies that I don't need to plaster a smile on my face when things go wonky. In the words of Jim Morrison: "You trade in your reality for a role. You give up your ability to feel, and in exchange, put on a mask." What happens when I pretend to be okay when I'm not? No one will offer assistance, because they think I'm handling everything just fine. It would be much better to be honest, admit that I'm struggling and take any help I'm offered.
I agree but it is so tempting to pretend everything is okay. We can even fool ourselves for a while but imagine the fright we and others get when our bottled up emotions, seemingly coming out of nowhere, eplode in everybody's faces. Boemm!
ReplyDeleteI think we are trained to smile and pretend we've got it all under control, but that sure can be a lonely place! And you're right - that's a volcano under construction.
DeleteI have a professional hula hoop. For the first few weeks I was purple going green everywhere.
ReplyDeleteI think I'm going to need more information... :D
DeleteThat is one movin' and grovin' woman. She must have gotten a hold of a bottle of go-go juice. Tomorrow she will have to wear a mask of "oh nothing hurts, I am just fine." The last time I went bowling was the last time I went bowling, couldn't walk the next day.
ReplyDeleteYep, she is likely to be a groaning granny when she gets out of bed tomorrow! :D
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