But when you open to the whole of your experience, you have more information and can make better decisions. You perceive more fully, seeing the big picture, putting things in perspective.
—Rick Hanson
There have been times in my early life when I lived in survival mode. It became necessary to wall off other parts of my life in order to deal with pressing matters. Unfortunately, when I'm under stress and tired, it's easy to slip back into this old habit. I segregate and bury certain emotions so I can keep marching forward. But as Hanson explains, I lose my perspective when this becomes an ongoing behavior. The Integration/Temperance card shows a woman weaving threads that come together to create a tapestry - the big picture that represents the whole of life. The Penguin is a flightless bird that moves in a waddle on land but is agile elegance in the water. Its message is to use my unique skills and abilities (rather than attempt to replicate what others do) to navigate my life. Trying to use the same guidelines of another will only keep me repeating old patterns. Time to try out some new moves.
when I wall it is to avoid pressing matters.
ReplyDeleteSpent seven hours in the ER on Monday; everything happening there was a pressing matter.
DeleteI really like that interpretation of Temperance. She is weaving birds on her tapestry and they are flying off. Our tapestry of life are the things we think and weave and then they take flight.
ReplyDeleteI hope you are alright.
This is one of my favorite Temperance cards. I'm okay, but my daughter has kidney stones.😮
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