I use tarot and oracle cards as tools for reflection and contemplation. Rather than divining the future, they are a way for me to look more deeply at the "now."
"The goal isn't to arrive, but to meander, to saunter, to make your life a holy wandering." ~ Rami Shapiro

Saturday, July 13, 2019

Cheering for Yourself

From the Ellis Deck, the Six of Wands/Rods; from the Brownies Oracle, 'Clearing:'

          Looks like the Page has grown up and that his adventuresome spirit and courage have paid off. But while his six rods acknowledge what he's accomplished, what is not visible is the accolades of other people. What happens when no one is there to give us an "Atta girl!" and pats on the back? Do we assume what we've done has been invalidated? It might be wise to consider Oliver Goldsmith's words: "He who seeks only for applause from without has all his happiness in another’s keeping." The Brownies appear to be cleaning up after a storm, judging from all those leaning trees. Clearing suggests I put aside any approval-seeking behavior and instead look at the fruit of my actions objectively.

Do not trust to the cheering, for those very persons would shout as much if you and I were going to be hanged. ~ Oliver Cromwell

4 comments:

  1. fine pairing today! All those watching brownies on the limb ;)
    Unless in the public eye to begin with the times we hear cheering are few to none. It sure is good to be appreciated by those whose opinions we care about though. Good job well done, is probably harder to get from them than a crowd, they are used to us doing our best every day. Rob will get some serious attaboys today. I say thank you for everything but maybe he doesn't hear them anymore.

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    1. But I bet Rob would miss those words if they were absent! :)

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  2. Appreciation and gratitude goes a long way. Even more so when we acknowledge our ownself.

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    1. It does, but emotional maturity requires that I know how to give myself those pats on the back.

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