Sometimes it's not what we think about that makes us so miserable, it's how we think about it. Here are six patterns of thinking (our swords) we might consider tossing overboard:
- Confirmation bias means we filter out anything that we don’t expect to find and focus on any small detail that seems to back up our assumptions.
- Black and white thinking causes us to rigidly categorize people or situations as all good or all bad with nothing in between.
- Overgeneralization happens when we take one bad experience and paint similar people and situations with the same brush even though we have no evidence they are actually the same.
- ‘Awfulizing’ makes us inflate small incidents into something huge, imagining the worst-case scenario.
- Mind-reading occurs when we presume to have information about someone without asking for clarification.
- Superstitious thinking means we mistakenly attribute connections between events or things where none exist – a normal incident becomes an omen for something good or bad.
Another Six of Swords. One last week if I remember correctly. I have been thinking about your six of swords draw last week, about leaving things behind and move on.
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Deletegreat thinking points, thank you. Not meant as political or a slam but I recognize our president in all of them. I wonder what his parents are like. (besides being immigrants...)
ReplyDeleteI agree, except his method of awfulizing is used to incite fear in others.
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