The Two of Cups shows how we learn to soften our edges, temper our tempers, and practice compassion and kindness. For some of us, it may be through caring for a pet or elderly parent; for others, it may be our interactions with coworkers, clients, or friends. We cultivate emotional maturity when we practice finding joy or contentment without always having things go our way. But the goddess Artemis warns us not to cast aside our values in these relationships, perhaps 'going along to get along.' We need the ability to think for ourselves, even if it means risking the harmony of a relationship.
There is much to be said for a spirit of cooperation, and getting along – top-performing teams, for example, thrive on harmony. On the other hand, when this means turning a blind eye to major ethical wrongs, then avoiding action is unethical. We need people willing to speak the truth, even to power.
~Daniel Goleman
happy to go along...until it infringes :)
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