Validation

From the Victoria Regina Tarot, the Six of Wands; from the Alchemist's Oracle, the Solar Plexus Chakra:

The Prince of Wales (later King Edward VII) is shown in a ceremonial parade after a successful trip abroad. While loved by much of the public, Edward had a troubled relationship with Queen Victoria. She had no confidence in his abilities and gave him little to do. It is nice to be publicly acknowledged for our successes, but relying on such judgment as a foundation for our belief in ourselves can be complicated. As Kurt Hanks wrote, "The more validation I need, the less discernment I have." The Solar Plexus card represents the seat of our will power and self esteem that motivates us to action. It is hindered when we cease to look at our accomplishments realistically, and instead rely solely on the opinions of another. 

A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him. 

—David Brinkley