Consume or Complement

From the PetraK Tarot, the Lovers; from the Astrodice, Pluto/Aquarius/11th House:

         Rather than a relationship where one partner consumes another, Petra makes the suggestion of finding a person that complements us, one who balances out our liabilities with assets. This consume/complement relationship could also apply to groups, where everyone has to rigidly abide by the rules or where everyone brings their individual talents to the table. It's not hard to guess which relationship is the healthiest. The Astrodice roll combines the razing/regenerating qualities of Pluto with the rebellious independence of Aquarius in the House of humanitarianism. Sometimes we must rebuild from the ashes to realize what is at the root of our problems. Pain breaks through our denial and allows us to change. Climbing out of the prison we put ourselves in, we discover something more beneficial. That is when transformation begins.