A fresh grave has been dug; now all that waits is the interment. What is it that needs to be buried, that needs to be let go of so that it can be recycled into something else? What freedom of mind awaits when that last shovelful of dirt is packed back in the hole? The Four of Club's verse is based on a children's song of call and response. One child says, "I am a gold lock," and another says "I am a gold key." It progresses through many metals until the last line (meant to trick the responding child): "I am a monk lock; I am a monk-key." Like the song, it is tempting to deceive ourselves so that we don't have to face reality and the endings that come with it. Yet as Norman Fischer wrote, "Acceptance is not resignation. Acceptance is a lively engagement with conditions as they are."
never heard that before, but I've often been the monk-key :0
ReplyDeleteI believe I have detected a bit of mischievousness in you! :)
DeleteI too have never heard that children's song.
ReplyDeleteIn all endings there are beginnings.
Those beginnings can help fill the ache left behind.
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