From the Tarot of Pagan Cats, the Ace of Swords; from Brownie Wisdom, 'When others scoff:'
What's interesting about the Ace of Swords is the way the sword goes through the top of the crown - there is no covering. It symbolizes an open mind that creates enough space to see many possibilities rather than relying on a rigid, traditional framework of how things have always been done. Solutions are often found in what is innovative or what has been cast aside as worthless. The little booklet describes it as "an opportunity for a new way of thinking." Yet new ideas often create fear in those who prefer to keep walking the well-worn road, and those who are afraid will likely try to take control by infecting others through worrisome, dire predictions. The Brownie Wisdom card suggests that we don't tie up our energy arguing with these folks; the best defense is a good offense. Showing can be more persuasive than telling.
Thanks Bev for your thoughtful post.
ReplyDeleteMost of us avoid arguments, but some love nothing more than having a good fight simply for it's own sake or for the desire to win the argument. Definitely people I avoid.
Participating in a good exchange of opinions and sometimes anger can save our lives especially if they are threatened.
Conflict resolution should be taught at an early age. Most of us learn to be aggressive or passive. Assertiveness and conflict resolution often isn't modeled in our homes.
Women are mostly taught that anger is a bad thing, but like I said it can save our lives.
I agree showing is the most powerful example and the Ace of Swords certainly clarifies muddled thought through successful action.
I think the current generation (politically at least) have forgotten how to come to the table and discuss the pros and cons of things without resorting to name calling or bringing up the past. But opinions speak with more authority when there is evidence to back them up.
DeleteI so agree Bev. And now with the internet and instant access without face to face contact and very little natural consequences, it's become even easier for people to do this.
DeleteI can be as offensive as the next person...
ReplyDeleteI think we all wear that mantle at one time or another...
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