Find Your Purpose

From the Bonefire Tarot, the Seven of Cups; from the Day of the Dead Lenormand, 'Letter:'

          I've been reading a book by Dr. Partha Nandi about his five steps to leading a life of joy and well-being. Surprisingly, the very first step is 'Find Your Purpose.' There has been much research done on happiness, health, and longevity, and all of it suggests having a purpose - actions that give our life meaning beyond the daily grind - makes a huge difference in our quality of life. Nandi writes: "Happiness comes and goes, but a sense of purpose transcends the fleeting joys and disappointments of everyday life. You have a higher road to walk and a way to put the ups and downs of life in perspective." The mind (ego) is generally convinced that fulfillment = getting something good in return for whatever we do. But to truly find our purpose, we must listen to the heart instead. The Lenormand's Letter card is based on communication of some kind. Together with the Seven of Cups, it suggests listening or reading with the heart engaged to uncover what will fulfill us emotionally. Rather than a 'how can this help me' focus, it turns into a 'how can I help another' foundation for living.